Leadership In Action


September 2, 2013

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On Wikipedia, comfort is defined as a sense of physical or psychological ease and a lack of hardship, while uncomfortable indicates people are lacking in comfort.  I disagree!  I am hung up in the word “lacking”.  I think people who are comfortable are lacking.  Let me explain.


When you go along in life and stay within the lines, always on the safe side of the street, not taking risks and staying under the radar, you think you are comfortable.  You don’t ruffle feathers, you don’t cause problems, and you avoid drama… Ha!


That is not the life I want to live. Not that I desire to ruffle feathers and be that obnoxious person no one wants around. Far from it.  I want to be the person that takes the risks, that lives in that uncomfortable zone, because that is where I am growing – taking life by the horns.  Experiencing new things.  Having new adventures. Dreaming big dreams and better yet, living the life I desire.


Comfort is a place where boredom sets in.  I define comfort as eating TV dinners in front of the television night after night with nothing worthwhile to say to your spouse while the kids are glued to their fantasy role playing video games because life is BORING! And Comfort is where I think those people live that are afraid of going for the big promotion because they live in fear that they aren’t good enough.


Good enough. Ha!  I don’t subscribe to that philosophy.  We are all good enough.  In fact, we are better than good enough.  Good enough is not an option with me.  Did I always think this way? No. I lived in comfort until one day, a mentor pushed me.  He pushed me to dream bigger dreams. He pushed me to want more out of life. To go after the big fish.


I have physical and psychological ease because I am reaching for the stars, and I am going to do whatever it takes to get there!  My mentor pushed me and changed my thinking. He said, “Even though you don’t believe it now, trust in my belief in you.” That was motivation enough for me – I trusted in his belief that I could, and wow, did my life change.  And the best part is that now I am mentoring others to achieve their dreams.  Comfort is not my goal – I’ll take uncomfortable any day!

  1. Great thoughts….and ones that most certainly apply to me personally now…..BTW….check out a song by Jason Castro…ENOUGH….speaks for itself…written I believe to his infant daughter but the message has much to say to all of us!

  2. Deb Ingino says:

    Bruce I love Jason Castro’s song … a song for us all. Thanks for sharing!